Today Guo is 16 months old. Her first Sweet 16! We hope that by her 19 month birthday we will have our LOA and be close to traveling to China to bring her home.
It is fun to think about having Guo here with us for her second birthday next summer. Next July 4th we will be on our 12th annual family beach vacation to Saint George Island, Florida. Our son, Ben, and my nephew, Drew, can not remember a summer without being on Saint George Island - they look forward to it and count the months from the day we leave the island until the next year's beach vacation arrives. We were on our 11th annual beach vacation last year when I first saw Guo's sweet face on my computer screen. Next summer she will be enjoying her first time splashing around in the Gulf of Mexico with our family and having an early 2nd birthday celebration. I have already shopped for this occasion for her, so she already has a bathing suit (or two), a beach cover up, a fun patriotic outfit and a birthday dress for her first summer vacation. Shopping for little girl stuff is too fun - good thing this stuff is on off-season clearance sale!
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Sixteen candles
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Saturday, November 24, 2007
The great paperchase is over!
I am sorry it has taken me so long to post - I have been under the weather with a bad head cold and so busy with Thanksgiving preparations and finalizing our paperwork. We had a lovely, quiet Thanksgiving at home with WAY too much food. Lots of leftovers to consume this weekend. We are so looking forward to having an additional place setting at our table next year!
Great news! Our state-authenticated I171-H copy came back to us from Richmond on Tuesday (although I had hoped to have it last Friday or Monday at the latest). I still was able to finish our document authentication in Washington DC on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving. This process entailed pulling numbers and waiting - first at the US State Department Authentication office and then at the Chinese Embassy's visa/authentication office (and paying all of the fees, of course). Thank you Shelli for all of your guidance on this process and the tip on where to park for the Chinese Embassy! There is no way I could have done this in one day without your help!!!! All of our documents now have the US Department of State seal and grommet attached and the Chinese Embassy's seal on the back, so they are now legitimate!
Waiting at the Chinese Embassy was a very interesting experience. A tiny little taste of what it will be like to travel in China, perhaps? It was very crowded - standing room only - and I had to wait for about 2 hours for my turn just to drop off my documents, then go have lunch and come back to wait for the pick-up time. I was one of a handful of non-Chinese people in the room. The television program running was also in Chinese - I think it was a tourism advertisment for China. I had forgotten my book in the car but didn't want to leave to go get it and lose my seat and have to come back through security. I tried to have a conversation with the woman next to me, but I was having a hard time understanding her English. She apologized and said her English was very bad. I assured her that her English was very good and was much better than my Chinese! Her 10 year old daughter, 'Sarah', helped act as our translator. I had pictures of Guo with me, as well as the Chinese characters for her name. I asked the woman to pronounce Guo's name for me and she said it differently than how we have been pronouncing it (she said it like 'Tsoo Gwah'). I kept repeating it back and she kept laughing and shaking her head 'no'. Finally, she smiled and clapped her hands after I said it - the only problem is, I have no idea what I said differently that time - it sounded exactly the same to me! Also, Guo lives in a Cantonese speaking province, so someone who speaks Mandarin or another dialect probably pronounces her name differently than the nannies that are taking care of her. I have no idea which dialect the lady next to me was speaking. We will just have to wait and hear it pronounced when we get there! There were a few other Americans - most looked like business people - at the office applying for their visas to visit China. I will be back to do that in a couple of months. There was one other adoptive mother, with her toddler son with her, who happened to have Down Syndrome. She had just received a referral for her daughter in China - after being logged into the non-special needs program for two and a half years! That makes my 6 month long paperchase for Guo seem like a piece of cake!
So, our completed dossier is safely tucked into a small FedEx box and is currently at the sorting facility in Portland, Oregon. It will be in our agency's hands on Monday morning. They will scan the documents and email them to their employee in Beijing who will complete the translation and then they will also ship it to her, hopefully all on Monday. By the time it arrives in China, I am told the translation will be complete and the translator will hand deliver the originals along with the translation to the China Center of Adoption Affairs in Beijing.
The CCAA will review our dossier and process the paperwork and if there are no questions, they will issue our LOA - Letter of Acceptance. This process takes anywhere from 60 - 100+ days. The two most recent special needs families at our agency to receive LOA waited about 65 days, so I am hopeful that will hold true for us as well. We hope to hear good news in early February (before everyone in China goes on a two week vacation for Chinese/Lunar New Year on February 7, 2008) and we hope to travel in March. We are cutting it quite close with our dates - if we miss the LOA window before the Chinese New Year, we may run into travel dates during the April trade show in Guangzhou, which would not be good - our travel dates could get pushed back to May in that case. March sounds so much better than April or May. Everyone pray for speedy LOA!
I am so relieved to have this portion of the process behind us. Now, we wait (and shop, and paint and decorate her bedroom, and assemble a crib, and toddler-proof the house...) Stay tuned!
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Wednesday, November 14, 2007
Special Delivery!
After a difficult 5-month labor, we are proud to announce our new arrival!
- Name: “Notice of Favorable Determination Concerning Application for Advance Processing of Orphan Petition”
- Nickname: I-171H!
- Measurements: 8.5” x 11”
- Weight: less than one ounce
She reads:
- “You have been approved for a SPECIAL NEEDS adoption.”… “A Cable has been sent to the National Visa Center to be forwarded to the American Embassy/Consulate at GUANGZHOU, PEOPLE’S REPUBLIC OF CHINA. You are approved for ONE CHILD.” Love, The U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services
(Okay, I added that last line) Here is her picture:
Isn’t she precious????????? I am sure she will be worth the wait. Soon she will off to China (well, at least a notarized, authenticated reproduction of her), along with many other precious documents, to the China Center of Adoption Affairs for further processing. Please stay tuned for more exciting announcements!
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Tuesday, November 13, 2007
USCIS appointment tomorrow /Wednesday!
Yea! I finally got the email! We will be going into the USCIS office tomorrow morning to give a sworn statement (due to fingerprint problems) and we should be issued our I171H there on the spot! Hurray!!!! This is the last piece of paper we need for our dossier. Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers that everything goes as expected tomorrow and we can get this show on the road!
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Monday, November 12, 2007
Thank you, Veterans!
Today is Veteran's Day. My son is actually at school today. It seems very strange that a place just outside of our Nation's Capitol doesn't see fit to make Veteran's Day a school holiday. That is so sad to me. My husband, Adam, works in the defense industry and is coming home today after spending the weekend at an air show at Nellis AFB in Nevada. He grew up in a military town - home to two Air Force bases and in close proximity to a third and also a Naval air station. Both of Adam's grandfathers served in the military and one was career military. Two of his grandparents are laid to rest in Barrancas National Cemetery in Pensacola. Today there is probably a small flag over their grave site, planted there by local Boy Scouts. I can guarantee you that there is no school today in Pensacola or Fort Walton Beach, Florida!
Adam and I have both had the privilege of having many friends, co-workers, and clients who are Veterans. A special 'shout-out' to just a few of you: Active Duty - Major Mike M & his wonderful wife (my friend Dana) and their 3 beautiful children at Columbus AFB in MS (happy 3rd birthday Miss Molly!), David & Jamila G (& unborn Baby Boy G) in New Mexico, Danny & Kara W and family at the Air Force Academy, John & Christy M in Virginia, David & Linda V in Virginia; Retired - Uncle Charlie in GA, Jim L & Karen L (BOTH Ret AF) and family in Colorado, Chuck Z & Charles W & 'Mr. Bob' in Fort Walton Beach, Vietnam Vets -cousin Dave in FL, Uncle Mike R in Atlanta and so many others. Thank you all for your service to our country!
Happy belated birthday to our friend Dan C in FWB, FL. Dan is married to my dear friend Heide and he had a BIG birthday yesterday! I am so sorry that we missed your special day - we miss you guys so much!
I hope that we will all take a few moments to reflect on the meaning of this day and to thank a Veteran of the United States military for his or her service in defending our freedom.
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Sunday, November 11, 2007
Blog makeover
I hope that everyone enjoys the new look of our blog! I stayed up most of the night last night working on it - this is what happens when my husband travels and there is nobody to tell me that it is time to go to bed! This is my first attempt at any kind of work with digital scrapbooking art and I still have some tweaking to do with font colors, I think. I am pretty happy with the header, but I'm not sure if the background makes it all too busy. Feel free to leave constructive criticism. Hopefully I will have some very good news to post this week!
UPDATE: I ate the snail - sauteed him up in some butter and swallowed him whole (only figuratively speaking, of course - snails aren't kosher)! I couldn't stand the slimy sight of him counting the days anymore. He has been replaced by the much more soothing "Chinese stork" counter (at right), in keeping with the URL for this blog. I hope that soon he will be counting the days from DTC to LOA!
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Thursday, November 8, 2007
A little news is better than no news
I emailed our USCIS adoption officer this morning (again) and was pleasantly surprised to get an almost immediate response. It looks like we MAY be allowed to come in for a sworn statement next Wednesday, November 14th, and receive our long-awaited I171H the same day. From her email it sounds like she is not yet done reviewing our home study. Hopefully she won't find any 'deficiencies' (her word) with it and we can get that appointment time without further delays. If it really happens, I may be able to complete the document authentication process and get our dossier into the hands of our agency before Thanksgiving. Now that would be something to be thankful for!
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Friday, November 2, 2007
One year ago...
One year ago Guo was in the hospital recovering from a ruptured abscess and infection in her head. Thanks to the loving care she received from True Children's Home in Dongguan and the medical care they arranged for her, she was able to fully recover and last December was able to have her cleft lip surgically repaired. After her release from the hospital, she was given lots of love and attention and thrived in their care. We hope to travel to True Children's Home during our trip to China to adopt Guo and thank them in person for taking such good care of her. I have posted this slide show previously, but I am posting it again as a reminder to myself that everything will be so worth the wait! If you go to their website, you can see some of these pictures on various pages and in their newsletters. They are so proud of their babies!
Guo has been back in Qingyuan City SWI since this June and will remain there until we are able to come adopt her.
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